Humans in this modern age have grown up to be individualistic. We feel that other people are troublesome and hinder personal progress. As much as possible, the most important thing is oneself and all progress centred on it. The value of togetherness and community has faded. There is nothing wrong with individual development, but the spirit of community and communal living should not be completely eliminated. It is necessary to establish a balance between the two. Especially if we are talking about the spirit of fellowship and church.

In our reading, the preacher invites his readers to reflect on human relationships. He begins the conversation with an imaginative depiction of a man who lives alone without sons or brothers. He labours hard, gains wealth, but has no one to inherit what he has gained. It should be noted that in the culture of the time only male family members could inherit. Everything would then be in vain. So the preacher concluded that two are better than one.

Subsequently, in verses 10-11, the preacher argues why living together and being in relationship with others is more beneficial and lightens the burdens that must be borne. "The three strands of a rope are not easily broken," is how the preacher builds his argument. Solid fellowship or togetherness will enable people to better face the challenges that life brings.

Bible friends, let us build relationships in solid and close fellowship. Not negating each individual, but rather strengthening in the bond of relationship that is built. Whether it is in a husband-wife, parent-child relationship, or in the wider community. A strong relationship with others makes a person able to endure all the challenges that exist. Perhaps from there will also come God's greeting and help.