In the past few years, the term sandwich generation has become increasingly common. This term refers to those who are in the "middle", bearing the responsibility of caring for parents while raising children. On the one hand, there are parents who need attention; on the other hand, there are children who need full support. It is not uncommon for this situation to bring emotional, financial and even relational stress. In the midst of dynamics like this, the family can be a space that strengthens, but also has the potential to become a space that hurts. Today's Word of God reminds us that families are not called to burden one another, but to honour one another.
Proverbs 17:6 states, "The crown of parents is their children and grandchildren, and the honour of children is their parents." In Israel's wisdom tradition, "crown" symbolises honour and glory. Children and grandchildren are referred to as the crown of parents, not simply because of their biological existence, but because their lives are the fruit of the upbringing, values, and faith passed down. Conversely, children also find their honour in their parents. A child's identity and pride are inseparable from his family roots. This verse affirms a reciprocal relationship: honour does not stand alone, but grows in intergenerational entanglements.
Wisdom is not only about personal decisions, but also about building healthy relationships. A family that honours one another is one that chooses wise speech, restrains anger, and maintains faithfulness. Family psychology perspectives emphasise the importance of these respectful relationships. The family is an interconnected whole; when one member is hurt, the whole system is affected. Conversely, when there is respect and support, the whole family grows healthier. So today's word of God affirms the steps of our respective family lives. God invites us all to realise love and respect in our families based on the eternal heritage of faith. When families live in mutual respect and love, that is where the glory of God is revealed from generation to generation.
