“Your mouth is your enemy,” reads an old commercial jargon that was once deeply embedded in the minds of Indonesians. The jargon underlines a local wisdom that has become common knowledge. The mouth/tongue is both a representation and a reminder that one's spoken words have far more power than is often imagined. Words from the same mouth can bring blessings and encouragement to the hearts of others, but on other occasions can leave people hurt and demoralised.

Similar advice is also written in our reading this time. Verse 13 highlights the wicked man who is ensnared because of his lips. Similarly, lies, which are a marker of one's moral quality, also arise from speech that cannot be controlled. In fact, one's words can also act like a sword stab. Stabbing and wounding the person who hears it. Those who are not careful with their words will fall into destruction (v.19).

A very different situation occurs for those who can control their words. Good words will result in good things. It is like a person who will be satiated by the “fruit of his words” (v. 14). The ability to control oneself and not reactively respond to situations that come is seen in the ability to respond to situations with words. Moral qualities such as justice are the markers of right speech. Those who are wise can be recognised by their ability to control their words and use them in the light of justice and truth.

Bible friends, let us continue to process the words that come out of our mouths. Realise that many times conflicts and complicated situations occur because of the words we speak. The tongue is indeed boneless, but it can be restrained by reason and wisdom instilled by God Himself. Use our lips as a means to praise and honour God's name.